Friday, September 28, 2012

Fitness and Recovery

Angelo Hemin Fitness Guru
The Benefits of Exercise in Addiction Recovery
For some of us who have been struggling to overcome an addiction to drugs or a dependence upon alcohol, the road to recovery literally is a road (or, in other cases, a path, a trail or a track). For those of us, physical fitness programs that involve running, walking or hiking help us develop the mental clarity and physical strength that we need to achieve and maintain long-term sobriety.
Incorporating a regimen of regular exercise into our lives can benefit recovering individuals in the following five ways:
  1. Provide a healthy outlet for negative emotions — Instead of turning to drugs in unproductive efforts to cope with stress, pressure or disappointment, individuals who have established a healthy exercise regimen can work out our problems while working out.
  2. Develop discipline — Self-discipline is an essential component of the pursuit of long-term recovery, and following a regular exercise routine is a way of practicing this type of personal accountability.
  3. Increase focus — Working out on a regular basis requires us to plan our time and pay attention to our bodies — two activities that are also important parts of staying sober.
  4. Enhance confidence — As we develop our bodies through exercise, we are also developing our confidence and sense of accomplishment. These acknowledgments of ability and success can come in handy when confronted with the challenges of recovery.
  5. Fill time — Being an addict can be quite time-consuming, with large chunks of one’s day devoted to finding, acquiring, using and recovering from one’s substance of choice. One positive way to fill those “empty hours” is by engaging in regular sessions of vigorous exercise.
The goal of addiction treatment is twofold: to stop using and to maintain long-term recovery. By incorporating healthy nutrition and exercise practices into your daily life, you enhance your ability to successfully achieve both of these goals.

 


Friday, September 21, 2012

The End of Summer

Today is the last day of summer.  The last day of summer always brings a sense of melancholy. Like when I was a kid, I thought "This is going to be the best summer ever!"  Then, it would end and I had many hopes are dreams left unfinished and unfulfilled. In recovery, I recognize that each season has its gifts and each season gives me what the others cannot.  I can be grateful for the temporary, ciclical nature of everything.

Monday, September 17, 2012

Life is a Beach Triathlon



 
On Saturday, my brother and I participated in the Life's a Beach Triathlon in Sarasota, Florida and we had an awesome time.  We swam, we cycled and ran through the beach, through the trails, and through the water.  This is sobriety.  This is paradise.

Friday, September 14, 2012

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Father Mychal Judge

The first responder to die in the 9/11/01 terrorist attack was Father Mychal Judge.  Father Mychal was a gay, recovering alcholic and a saint.
Mychal's Prayer:c. Holy Name Province

Lord, take me where You want me to go,
let me meet who You want me to meet,
tell me what You want me to say,
and keep me out of Your way.

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Why people get sober, but don't stay sober...


Why don’t people stay clean and sober?

1.       Step 1 – We admitted that we were powerless – that our lives had become unmanageable.

a.       Part I – They don’t believe that they are powerless over alcohol / drugs.

                                                               i.      They think that they can still do it safely

                                                             ii.      They have not surrendered to the evidence before them.

                                                            iii.      They do not believe that their problems are related to their substance abuse.

 

b.      Part II – They do not believe that their lives are unmanageable.

                                                               i.      They think their problems are not too severe.

                                                             ii.      They think their problems are related to other issues.

                                                            iii.      They blame others for their unmanageability.

 

HONESTY – SURRENDER - ACCEPTANCE

 

2.       Step 2 – Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves can restore us to sanity.

a.       They don’t believe that there is hope.

                                                               i.      They don’t believe that THEY can be restored to sanity

                                                             ii.      They believe in self-reliance or self-sufficiency holds the power.

                                                            iii.      They don’t believe that the power can restore us to sanity or deserve to be restored to sanity.

                                                           iv.      They don’t believe that their lives are insane; that doing something differently will make any difference.

 

HOPE

 

3.       Step 3 – Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understand him/her/it

a.       They take back their decision.

b.      They don’t trust or keep faith.

c.       They don’t wait long enough to see the outcome or the good that comes from a situation.

d.      They don’t let go and let God.

e.      They forget that acceptance is the answer to all their problems.

FAITH – TRUST
Reggie Mckee
 

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Emmanuel Jal - See Me Mama


I am and will be grateful always to Emmanuel Jal, a internnation peace activist, philospher, philanthropist and hip-hop artist.  He gave me my life back and gave me the most precious gift ever - the gift of HOPE!

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Grattitude

There are days when I don't know what is right and I don't know what to do, but I am always grateful for a sober day.  There are days when I don't think that I can go on, but I am always, always grateful for God, a source of love, strength and courage, in my life.